Month of love

Its February and everyone is on and on about Valentines day, the 14. But what exactly is the month of love, i for one can not say because love is a very controversial subject. It can be defined in many views but from a lay mans point of view; it is more or less of a vivid emotion.

Since Feb is the month of love show the ones you love how much they mean to you. Take note ‘the ones you love’ not neccessarily the ones you are in a relationship with. Love Love Love.

I zip my mouth when it comes to this issue, bt all i can say is i love everyone in my life. Including you.

Merry Christmas

Ho Ho Ho … The time has come when you have to put aside all your problems because this is not the time to wallow but to enjoy. If you are religious do that- go to church and celebrate thebirth of Jesus Christ..

Religion aside now, if you need fun dont sit home and wish, go out there and enjoy yourself. Drink until the cows come home but dont drink and drive but drink and jive.. Now thats what Christmas is all about, enjoyment. Enjoy in the best way eveeeeeeer … Now go out there and enjoy

Nonetheless, seasonal greetings to everyone… Merry Christmas, or should i say kissmas coz you gotta get many of those… wHOre wHOre wHOre

Want a relationship urgently??? Jus chill

Love??? there are different definitions of this term depending on how you look at it. I know for a fact that most people are eager to fall in love thus if you have not had the priviledge of experiencing its pleasures. Bt ask from me and become my protégé because i think with my analytic mind i have discovered a lot about love that great minds have failed to explore.

Buckle up and listen to my own perspective petaining this epitome called
love. Now love is more or less of a vivid emotion that comes from within so if you have not felt it yet dont hurry because haste surely makes waste. You might think that venturing into a relationship is pleasant bt it has its setbacks. If love is a bed of roses as people think then why the breakups. These are evident enough to prove the assertion that love is a bed of thorns.

If you get zealous to get into a relationship you will never find love. Love comes to those who least expect it and those who wait. So pls just be patient and dont rush into things you are not armed to brace. Just wait your time will come sooner rather than later. The sophistication of relationships is unbearable so just chill. Relationships wont bring you the happiness you so much desire but understanding yourself and unleashing your inner chemistry will do that.

If your time is up you will hear the alarm bell go, if your relationship alarm is not yet up just remain in the arms of Morpheus and enjoy the pleasure of being single. Single is not only a relationship status but is a term that describes a person who is strong enough to live life alone.

Following the rainbow

Most people have resorted to following the rainbow in search for the pot of gold. The pot of gold is one thing that people have searched for since times immemorial. What is this pot of gold am i alluding to. The pot of gold is your happiness, be it a person or a place this differs from person to person. Now as it is known to the general populace that the rainbow is colourful, beautiful and appeals to the natural human senses. Sadly, however, my own interpretation of the rainbow is that good advice you get, and those things that make you eager to persue your desire but has negative effects.

Now enough about all the symbolism, allow me to relatr the issue at hand. People have the tendance of following the rainbow, taking the easy way round happiness. But these things like peer pressure are the rainbow i am talking about, they come in an attractive manner and make us have the oomf of doing what seems good. At the end of the day people lose their dignity, but for what? Chastity is lost, principles are went against, respect is shattered and images are tarnished just because of following the rainbow.

The best way to enjoy the happiness that you so much desire is to do away with ostentencity, and wait your time will come. Dont let all these good things that you see and hear let your actions go in vain. Never follow the rainbow…

Everything comes to an end

In life there comes a time when you think u have it all. Bt pooof u hv it gone at the blink of an eye. The time when you lose smething or sme1 u luv. One thing abt life that i hv realised is that you dont knw the importance of the people around u or the things around u until they r gone. Just like water some have jus told themselves we jus gotta drink it, they realise its importance when they are thirsty. It wld b dat time when u drink juice and it doesnt quench ur thirst that u realise the importance of water. That is how life is the people around you are not important until they are gone. If a family member, nomatter what or how u related decides to take his or her last breath that is when you note the gap in your life. A gap that noone can fill. Take the people who u live with seriously and enjoy your relationship while it lasts. RIP to my dad who passed away on 28.03.12 and my half brother’s dad who passed away on 20.09.12

balancing the see-saw (gender equity)

women, women and women, what about men? Men are not recognised these days, soon they will go extinct in the world of women. I dont argue the fact that long ago women were abused and mistreated in society, some women are still succumbing to the same old abuse. Through feminism they made men aware of their plight. Now we were approaching a state of equilibrium when it comes to gender.
However, as women continue to wallow for gender balance they are oppressing their male counterpart. Soon an era of plight of men will be experienced. Let us balance the see-saw with gender balance, let us not pull one party towards the pivot which is blame so that the other might rise. Women need equality – this is not being felt sympathy for – this is equal opportunity for all. Women need self emancipation not feminist perspectives for gender equity … WE LIVE IN A WORLD OF TWO SEXES SO LET US CO-EXIST IN EQUALITY

Fact about Love

When you get into a relationship, there is a spiritual bond in the couple. So if you have a tendency of getting into many relationships so that you may look lyk a star think twice because you will end up losing not only your dignity bt your personality. At the end of the day u will turn into a pedophile because u cant love. You will be failing to commit.

When you break up a relationship for no particular reason you hurt your partner. That pain you have caused might curse you. You next relationship will be worse. So imagine doing that to many people. You might be cursed for the rest of your days.

So knowing that haste makes waste. Think twice if nt thrice before making you decision in life.

The man of the moment

Nelson Mandela served 27yrs in prison so as to make South Africa what it is today. By that time he was the man of the moment. The question is now in the world who is the man of the moment, i wont say what he will do or how he will do it but i know he is there. The man of the moment is on the net now, drawing closer to wordpress. The man of the moment is reading a post in Denzelspeeches and the man of the moment is YOU. The question is how are you going to transform the world, what legacy are you going to leave. The man of the moment will shine and will shine now. So go out there and show the world what you are made of. Arise and shine for you and only you are the man of the moment…

Believe you are a winner

Once Martin Luther King Jr. said “In life there comes a time when you choose whether you walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness” What was meant was that in life there cömes a time when you choose whether you are a winner or loser. When choosing this path, ladies and gentlemen, bear in mind that winners were not born winners neither were they elected to become winners but they made themselves winners by being hard working, optimistic, enthusiastic and goal oriented.. Ladies and gentlemen, i know most of you are asking themselves why believe you are a winner not a loser. The thing is your attitude defines you. In simpler terms you are what you believe in, so if you believe you are a winner you are assured of victory. Being a winner does not neccessarily mean you should have the desire to beat others but means you are motivated by the desire to achieve. Ladies and gentlemen, with belief cömes action and with action comes results. So what are we supposed to do so as to attain these results. As students we have to read, even under the simplest senses of ignorance one cannot sit on his/her books thinking that the information in the books will diffuse to your head until it is in equilibrium. As winners we read while others are sleeping, dream while others are wishing and smile while others are crying. Most adults like to say that for you to strive in a certain field you have to be recognisëd, but i say make yourself worthy of recognition. Ladies and gentlemen, opportunity knocks once but temptation leans on the door bell, thus if there is a door. So let us build this door and take advantage of all opportunity that çomes our way. Now, the attitude of a winner is to focus on your long term results even though your short term results are not on track. When life offers you a rope donot hang yourself like a loser but go with the rope to the highest cliff and do bungee jumping, thus taking advantage of all opportunity. Finally, failure should be our teacher not our undertaker, failure is delay not defeat. It is only a temporary detour not a dead end. Failure is something we ca n avoid by believing to be winners. Ladies and gentlemen, if you want to be a winner do not sit home and think about it. Go out there and get busy. ****THANK YOU****